Happy Birthday To Me

Capricorn. 

It's monday, therefore, that can only mean one thing… Ive recovered from my birthday shenanigans! This past weekend marked my 22nd birthday (yes I know I don't look it) and what an amazing weekend it was. I'm pretty sure people are sick and tired of seeing my lime dress plastered all over their wall on Facebook and Instagram feed, but I don't care, look away lol!

After a massive 21st party last year, and all the stress that came with planning a party, I decided to keep things simple this year. Over the last year I've been doing some soul searching and making some life changing decisions. A big part of those changes have been re-evaluating the company I keep, and ending a lot of so-called "friendships". It's really true what they say.. "You aint growing up if you aint losing friends".

On friday, I had the most amazing dinner, with some of the closest people to my heart. Words can't describe how much fun I had. At one point, I caught myself just looking around the table with a goofy smile, watching everyone in deep conversations whilst divulging their plates of food. The food in Preto Rodizio is so amazing, I'm drooling now just thinking of the meat. Every other minute skewers with different cuts of meat came to the table, drinks were flowing (which resulted in some ratchet behaviour) thank God I chose not to wear a body hugging dress. Oh, and of course the presents were a bonus :)

It was quite overwhelming, the love I felt. The feeling of people being there for you and only having your best interests/intentions at heart. The older I get I've grown to realise that life is not about being popular but by having real friends and family around you.

What great start to my year! I can't wait to see what else 2014 has in store for me…

Mpho x

Reflectin'

First of all let me take the time to wish everyone a Happy New Year.

This blog post is long overdue, one of my New Years resolutions was to be consistent with my blog posts, but as per usual I having been living up to my name of 'Procrastination Queen', and putting stuff off for the next day, which turns into the next week! But, that is all about to change. You're probably rolling your eyes thinking "ohh, everyone says that", but I have made a promise to myself because time time waits for no-one. 

I don't know what it is about an approaching birthday that makes you think about every aspect of your life, especially the future. I know I'm not alone in this, because in these last few weeks, I have engaged in countless conversations with close friends about life and what we want to do etc.

Do you ever find yourself just looking around at your peers thinking, "wow they've got so much going on for themselves, what am I doing"? Well, that's all I seem to be doing these days. I think a part of that is because of this cut-throat industry i'm in. There's so much pressure and competition and boy am I feeling it alright. I know exactly what it is I want and need to do to make it, so there is no excuse. I know my potential so sitting around in my room doing nothing all day is just not going to fly anymore.

Apart from hating the course I was doing in Birmingham with a passion, a huge reason why I decided to quit it was because I wanted to be in London.. 'The land of opportunities' lol and I feel like I haven't taken advantage of this great city and what it has to offer. I mean, I've been to one or two exhibitions and events but it's not enough.

Okay, I've just read what i've written and I sound so miserable! gosh! I think ill cut this post short before I bore you to death with my inner thoughts, then again this is called 'DIARYofanextrovert' right?  So it's only right that I vent/share some of my thoughts with you from time to time. With all this spare time I have had on my hands, I've been doing some hardcore thinking about the blog and it's context, and I must say I'm excited. Watch this space haha!

"You have the same hours in the day as Beyonce"

Mpho x 

Grey

Black Crop Top - Primark 

Faux Fur Jacket - H&M 

High Waisted Jeans - Cow (Vintage Shop)

Boots with white heel - eBay 

Hello Eveeryone =)

This is just a quick post on yesterday's outfit of the day for uni. Once again, I kept it real plain and simple. I don't really believe in wearing stiletto heels and extravagant clothes to uni, it just looks like you're trying too hard, but anyway each to their own I guess. I LOVE my H&M jacket, I still can't believe it was only £14.99 (and even less for me because I work there hehe) and it's sooo warm! I'm one of those people that get bored of hairstyles quick and unfortunately these box braids have run it's course ‪#sigh. I'm literally just holding on to the fact that it took me two whole days to do them, but hey.. They got's to go. Till the next post folks. 

Mpho x 

Hot Right Now

Shop The Trend...

(Top to bottom) Inset Midi Dress, £35, Miss Selfridge / Wine Skort, £22, Fashion Union / Platform Heels, £62, Topshop / Crushed Velvet Half-Sleeve Body, £12.99, New Look / Crop Top, £12, Nelly.com. 

One of the trends taking over the high street this season, is undoubtedly the Velvet trend. Velvet was all over the catwalks, but why pay hundreds of pounds when you can spend a fraction of that price in your high street?!

From velvet dresses, tops, kimono's, leggings, jumpsuits and many more, these velvet pieces are a MUST HAVE this season. I've snapped up a few velvet pieces myself, which I cannot wait to rock. (Plus they're warm) ! 

Mpho  x 

90s Baby

Ghetto Fabulous...

Basketball Tee - Car Boot Sale 

Leggings with Leather panel - H&M

Gold Watch - Casio 

Boots - eBay

Hello Everyone :)

Just another quick outfit of the day of what I wore to uni yesterday. Isn't it weird how a quick change of hairstyle and outfit can make you feel like a completely different person? I felt like I was thrusted back into the 90s in this 'fit, which resulted in some oddly ratchet behaviour (I promise I NEVER do that with my chewing gum lol), I think I subconsciously had an alter ego in mind... Must say, I had fun in the park with my girl Libby shooting these pics. 

I would be lying through my teeth if I said I knew anything about basketball. However, when I saw this top at my local car boot sale over the weekend I just had to get it! I mean for only a £1 I would've been an idiot not to take it. I love it! Wore my new boots from the previous post again, I am gonna be wearing them to death, I can just see it. I definitely need to buy some more pairs in different colours and style. 

Mpho x

Booties

Long Sleeved Black Top - Primark Basic 

Denim Dungaree Dress - Topshop 

Faux Leather Backpack - H&M 

Studded Leather Jacket - Topshop

Cutout Boots w/ white sole/heel - eBay 

Lips - Mystic by Sleek 

Hey Everyone :) 

So as promised, I'm back to blogging *cue crowd cheer* This is just a quick post on what I wore to uni today (like my posing haha?) Nothing special at all, just kept it simple as usual. I'm really not that type to go to uni wearing 6inch heels and whatnot, I just can't put my feet through that pain, It's all about comfort with me, especially as I'm in uni till some ungodly hours (well 6pm latest) sometimes. I see some girls in uni walking around in towering heels and i'm just in awe.. how do you do it? and why?! 

Anyway... I am in LOVE with my new boots! eBay never fails me in that department. The chunky heel makes the boots a little more comfortable too and at only £25 I will definitely be getting the boots in all black. Another one of my recent favourites are the lipsticks by Sleek, I just can't get enough of them. They add that much needed pop of colour to the lips and plain outfits. The colours are so pixelated and suit any skin tone, and again what a bargain for only £4.99. 

Mpho x 

Missing In Action...

Hello Everyone :)

First and foremost please, please excuse my hiatus with the blog posts. I haven't abandoned the blog whatsoever I promise, It's just been a hectic few months. But rest assured that I will be posting regularly from now on. 

Mmm where do I start?! Well for those of you that know me personally, will know how much I hated the course I was studying at Birmingham City University. (Media & Communication) I was literally SO done with it! I don't think a day went by without me complaining, but I felt stuck. Not only did I not have a clue about what I would do if I was to quit the course but I was also dreading that akward conversation with my parents (African parents and education, I know you feel me on that one lol). 

Anyway, long story short and a LOT of thinking later, I was accepted on a Fashion Journalism course at the University of Creative Arts (UCA). I am so happy, I can't tell you enough. The course so far has been everything that I was expecting, which is more than I can say about BCU!! I mean it sucks that I have to start all over again from 1st year, but you know what?? I DON'T CARE!! I've been kicking myself about not moving sooner or going there in there 1st place. Not only am I loving the fact that i'm back home, not having to worry about what i'm going to cook for dinner on a tight student budget and paying for rent, etc but I finally feel like my life is moving in the right direction and that this course is going to open so many doors for me in the long run. London is the place to be in my opinion, especially with fashion, Birmingham was slowing a girl down! I can't rave about it enough (clearly).

My brain is like a sponge, it's been soaking up everything about designers, the history of fashion and up and coming trends (I'm studying to be a fashion commentator) so expect a lot more from my blog. I feel like I have more clarity now about what i'm doing and what I want to achieve through this blog. Im excited. 

Finally, I just want to say.. Follow your heart and go with your gut instinct, as scary as it may be sometimes, but believe me, it will all be worth it in the long run. Live for YOU, and be HAPPY. 

Mpho x