16.6.14

Black Hair Care | Thinning Edges

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If a supermodel like Naomi Campbell can have a hairline like this, just imagine what lurks underneath the average girls weave\wig! This is no laughing matter. The truth of the matter is that thinning edges are a recurring issue for black women, young and old, and it's hard to pinpoint the cause.

Not all black women have problems with their edges (lucky you), but for some of us that do, I hope by sharing some of the products I use and have worked for me, that you too can finally get your hair looking healthy and back on track again. Like I said before, there are various reasons why your edges could be thinning and things will only get worse if you don't do something about it now. Many people are in denial, and think by hiding their hair under a wig or fringe\side-sweep hairstyle and only applying hair food to the affected areas at night time the hair will miraculously grow back. It won't. (Trust me I know)

I was one of those people in denial until it was too late and the end result was for me to do the 'Big Chop' (BC). The only way to grow my hair back was to shave it all off, and embark on a natural hair journey. My hair was growing at a decent rate and I was loving my 'TWA' (Teeny Weeny Afro) but after a few months I got bored of the short, blonde look everyone seemed to be rocking and I got a wig made. What I should have known by then is that I have sensitive edges. I loved the wig, however the tension from the tight elastic (holding the wig in place) was damaging my edges. I opted for braids, a form of protractive styling I thought. Wrong. They only made things worse. Or should I say I made things worse because they were too tight to begin with, extra long which meant they were heavy and pulling on my hair and to top it all off the constant 'sleeking' of the edges (with the toothbrush and edge control haha) set me back 10 steps.

For the past few weeks now I've been using these 4 products and I haven't looked back since. My hair is looking healthier than ever and most importantly my edges are back like they never left haha. I will be posting a picture soon.

1.) Dr. Miracle's Hot Gro Hair and Scalp Treatment: Blended with Aloe, Shea Butter and Jojoba Oil. Conditions and promotes healthy hair growth. This hair food comes in different strengths, I got mine in super so I could feel that tingly and airy feeling Dr.Miracle products give your scalp. I must add, this hair food does have a strong smell so I tend to apply it in the evenings.

2.) Protectiv Mega Growth Anti-Thinning Temple Recovery: Blended with Olive, Shea and Avocado to reduce temple breakage, thickening the hairline and crown. As you can see from the pictures, this product is nearly finished, i've been applying small amounts of it daily.

3.) Jamaican Mango & Lime Original Jamaican Black Castor Oil: Treatment for dry damaged hair. There are different types of castor oils that you can use, however I opted for this one after reading and watching a lot of reviews on youtube. Not only can you use this for your hair but it's great for the skin too. I sometimes apply a tiny bit to my face when it feels dry. The consistency is quite thick, so you only need to apply a small amount each time. The amazing thing about using pure oils, is how nourished they make your hair feel, especially if you have dry, brittle hair.

4.) T444Z: For massive hair growth, volume and thickness. Repairs hair line. Stops balding, dandruff, scalp dryness, itchiness and hair loss. This tiny pot cost a whopping £15! That's a lot for us when hair food is usually as little as £3. But for it to cost this much it must work right? Right! After watching numerous reviews and hearing a few of my friends talking about this product I decided to try it out myself. And I can honestly that after two weeks I have seen some change, so I can't wait to see how my hair will look like in about a months time. I've been massaging small amounts to my scalp every day, and you honestly don't need to apply a lot as it is very oily and having a shiny forehead aint cute.

Anyway, I hope this will help someone out there. I am not an expert on hair care, I'm just simply sharing what works for me. Comment below if you have any products you think I would benefit from.

Finally, know your hair and what works for you. Be cautious with cornrows, braids, weaves and other styles that are potentially damaging your hair. If you're suffering from bad edges, try putting your hair in a protective style for a few weeks, and take care of those edges daily with the essential oils. Or you'll end up like Miss Campbell...

Mpho x



12.6.14

When In Doubt, Jumpsuit It!



Printed Jumpsuit - New Look 
Tan Wedges - Primark 

My hair has changed since the last post. I have this lovely curly hair-do now. I'm in one of those phases where you're bored with your look but have no idea what it is you want to do. I swear sometimes I just want to shave my hair all off again, and live an easy life.

 Anyway, this past weekend I went to a friends event in Kennington Park Cafe. The God's answered everyones prayers because the weather was amazing compared to the previous day. I kept it fairly simple with my outfit. You can never go wrong with a jumpsuit in my eyes. You look great without trying too hard, it does the job for you. New Look has quite a few of these in with all types of different prints and at only £24, so whenever i'm in doubt I know exactly what i'll be wearing. 

Mpho x 

2.6.14

Meet Jamie



Printed Shirt - Wallis (Thrifted) 
Ripped Jeans  - Topshop 
Leather Flatforms - Primark 

Just a quick post on yesterday's outfit to my friends BBQ. I am absolutely loving the ripped jeans trend at the moment, so much so that I have got a bit scissor happy and transformed all my old jeans. Gone are the days when one struggles to find a pair of jeans without that dreaded gaping at the back. I know all you curvy ladies out there know exactly what i'm talking about. I was never really a 'jeans' person before due to the mere fact of never finding the perfect fitting jeans for my shape. However, Topshop has restored my love for jeans, especially their 'Jamie' jeans. Not only are they super-stretchy but they are super high-waisted which I feel accentuates my figure even more. If any of you ladies out there have the same problem I had, I recommend a trip into Topshop to try the different types of jeans they have in store, you can thank me later. :)

Mpho x 


19.5.14

Music Monday #5

I feel like i'm so out of touch with music since I've gone to Thailand. The best bit of music I heard out there was literally only through the pool and beach parties we went to. Anyway, this past week I've been trying to play "catch-up" and I find myself going back to these tracks.


Usher is back y'all! Look at him dancing like the good 'ole days. And I'm guessing from the return of his infamous "U"chain (as seen in the video) we should expect to hear some classic R&B tunes from his upcoming album and I can't wait. I just love the soul-funk jazzy feel to the song, and I love the video.



I can't belieb i'm saying this, but I THINK i'm officially a 'belieber'. I never really used to be a fan of Justin Bieber before, but "Confident" was my jam and now the same has to be said for his latest song "All That Matters". His voice has matured so much, i'll hear a song on the radio and will be gobsmacked when I find out it's actually him. The lyrics are cute and the beat is on point.


Another song I can't get enough of is "Smartphones" by Trey Songz. I love how real the video is too. I've actually seen this happen in real life and trust me it aint no joke, these smartphones be ending relationships. I hope Trey makes more songs like these, I miss the old "Neighbours Know My Name" Trey.


Mpho x 

16.5.14

OOTD

 

Trench Coat - H&M 
Polka Dot Shirt - New Look 
White Jeans - TopShop (Joni) 
Gold & Black Strappy Heels  - New Look 

I can't remember the last time I shared an outfit of the day with you guys so here it is :) Well technically speaking, it's not "of the day" because this was taken yesterday. Anyway, my uni friend Sam is going away to Berlin for the summer, so Libby and myself decided it was the perfect opportunity for all of us to catch up over some lovely food and drinks. Negril, a Jamaican food restaurant based in Brixton was the host. It was my first time going there, and I will definitely be going back. Apart from the tasty food we had, what I love most about this place is the atmosphere. It has such a chilled yet vibrant, urban feel to it. The service was good, the music and to top it all off you can take your own drinks there, yes including alcohol just for £2.50. I mean it don't get better than that!

I'm afraid you are going to be seeing a lot of these white jeans on here, I cannot stop wearing them. I've never really been a 'jeans' person, only for the simple fact that it's an absolute nightmare finding jeans that fit me properly, however, Topshop jeans are IT! Pricey? yes! But so worth it.

So here's what I had...

Saltfish Fritters as a starter 

Ox-tail and Rice n Peas for the main 
Mpho x 



12.5.14

Sawadee Krab/Kha


That's 'hello' in Thai. I picked up a word or two while I was away… 

Hello Everyone :) I'm backkkk! I don't even know where to start if I'm honest with you. Well, I've been back a week now from Thailand and I can finally say that my body clock is back to normal and I am no longer jet-lagged. Before going away I told myself I was going to do a day-by-day post of what I was getting up to, but that plan went out the window almost instantly. The fun I was having simply didn't allow me to even think about blogging ( I took thousands of pictures though as you could imagine).

Had it not been for my cousin deciding to get married in Thailand, I probably wouldn't have gone for a long time. You know how it is, forever making plans and promises with friends and family about holidays and getaways that never happen, but this happened and it was the most amazing time of my life. Everyone's been asking me tons of questions, and i've been finding it hard to put into words just how amazing Thailand was. Words just cannot describe or even give you a clear picture of what I saw and did. The people were so friendly, kind and warm. They loved my brown skin, which was just mind blowing and weird at the same time because I learnt that being light skinned was very important to Thai people especially the women. In a few places we visited, we saw people covered up in hoodies, oversized hats, face masks, holding up big umbrellas to shield themselves from the scorching heat and when we asked one of them they simply explained that being dark skinned means being associated and put in a group of migrant workers, street food sellers, maids and poverty. It's quite sad really…

The food. Oh, the food… Absolutely amazing! The beach, our villa, parties, shopping, Tuk Tuks, motorbikes, thai massages, the views, the wedding, the food, the food and the food was amazing (someone give me another word) and ofcourse the company. I couldn't have gone to such a beautiful place with lovelier people. People that you hardly knew but at the end of it all feel like family. What the hell was Drake saying about "No New Friends?" Pffffft. 



Anyway, I'm sure its pretty clear that I loved every single minute of Thailand, and will probably do another post just to rub your faces in it once more so i'll leave it here for now

Mpho x 


26.3.14

The Lorraine Hansberry Story

"What happens to a dream deferred, does it dry up like a raisin in the sun?" - Langston Hughes 

A few weeks ago in Uni, I was put into a group and we were given the task to produce a photoshoot in the style of i-D Magazine, taking inspiration from an exhibition and recreating it's story. The exhibition we decided to do our styling shoot on was the Brooklyn Museum's: Twice Militant: Lorraine Hansberry's Letters to "The Ladder."

Lorraine Hansberry was an African-American playwright/writer. She was the first black woman to write a play performed on Broadway. She is best known for the play A Raisin in the Sun, which is a title taken from the poem "Harlem" by Langston Hughes. 


Hansberry was a lesbian. She was an activist for gay rights and wrote letters about feminism and homophobia to a magazine called, The Ladder. For the shoot we decided to look into lesbianism, transgenderism. The aim was to style our models in an androgynous style in an attempt to confuse the audience of the models sexuality, and to capture key moments in Lorraine's life such as the rabbit fur white coat her parents bought her during the Great Depression, which resulted in her being attacked by her classmates; punching and throwing bricks at her and spilling ink all over her white fur.  

There was only one person in mind when it came to choosing a model and that is my girl Yolanda Dombo. Androgyny style? Check! White fur? Check! 
We shot on location in places like the tube, under-paths and gritty, urban areas to give the shoot a raw "modern" feel; subtly adding key components from her life with the styling without being too obvious such as The Ladder, bricks, fur, masculine trousers etc. 

Photographer: Stephanie Toms. Fashion Editor and Blogger at http://www.creatorsofdesire.com

The whole concept of the shoot was that "Lorraine" was out to face the world but as a closeted lesbian she "hid behind a mask" (hence the mask). Anyway, I'm sure you kind of get my drift so ill stop telling you about the shoot and let the pictures speak for themselves. 
 Final images for our i-D Magazine style shoot: 
Photographer: Stephanie Toms. Fashion Editor and Blogger at http://www.creatorsofdesire.com
(Other models portraying lesbianism and transgenderism)


Scroll down and read the post below  to know a little more about Lorraine Hansberry aka Yolanda Dombo 
Mpho x